Welcome to guest blogger Jenn D'Jamoos CCCE, Co-Director of Intact Michigan. Jenn will be presenting the upcoming seminar 'The Circumcision Decision' on Mon. June 25 at Live With Awareness in downtown Rochester. Her passion is to support families to discover fact based information to make an informed decision whether or not to choose circumcision.
I’m not going to lie. I was a nervous wreck when we found out we were expecting. I had several friends who all seemed to be navigating parenthood fairly well, but nobody I was really close to that shared with me all of the nervous discussions between couples in those last few weeks before the baby arrives. I would have liked to know how to handle talks about vaccination, circumcision, breastfeeding, co-sleeping and all the really emotionally charged topics that new parents face today.
When it comes to these sometimes volatile subjects, I discovered that most family and friends fall into one of two camps: they don’t want to offend you by offering their perspective OR they really don’t care if they offend you by offering their opinion! This made it difficult for me to get some honest-to-goodness objective information because frankly, you don’t know what you don’t know. How was I supposed to know that there were risks to formula feeding? Nobody told me that. How was I supposed to know that circumcision had no proven benefits? Nobody told me that either. Vaccination? Don’t even get me started. To make a truly informed decision on behalf of my children, I needed more information than I was getting from my doctors and BabyCenter, but I didn’t realize this until well after we had our first child, a daughter.
Becoming a mother does this funny thing to you. It makes you super protective of the little people you give birth to. It’s called ‘finding your mama bear.’ Some mama’s find it when they are pregnant, others find it when they are in labor or giving birth, and yet others find it in the first days, weeks and months of their new life with baby. I realized at some point after having our daughter that protecting my children meant becoming an informed healthcare consumer; and that meant I would become a voracious learner.
Becoming a mother again would give me another chance to put in my due diligence and this time, no stone was left unturned. So, after we discovered that we were expecting a boy, I delved into the topic of circumcision. What do you suppose I discovered? Well, the long and short of it is . . . it’s terribly painful, it carries great risks and it takes away the most sensitive part of a boy’s/man’s body. I could not fathom doing this to my son. Alas, I needed to have “the talk” with my husband. I approached him gently, praying that he would be receptive. He asked if I could give him some time to look into the subject himself and I encouraged him to do so. Some weeks went by and I nervously awaited his answer. I knew in my heart that he would choose to keep our son intact, but I was still anxious to hear it from him. He finally came to me and said that because it isn’t medically necessary we would not need to circumcise our boy. PHEW! That was easier than I thought.
For most parents, though, this decision isn’t that easy. There is a lot of pressure from friends, family and even medical professionals to cut their baby boy. But if you look at this topic from a worldly perspective, it doesn’t happen in Europe, or China, or Japan, or Central or South America. It doesn’t happen in Russia or Iceland or India. There are very few cultures that practice circumcision, but the ones that do have found ways to justify it. It’s basically a solution looking for a problem.
There are many, many resources on the subject of circumcision and nowadays all you have to do to find a stimulating conversation about it is to hop on Facebook or any of the boards at a multitude of different parenting sites. But, if you are a fan of science, you might be interested to know that there was a study done just a few years ago that revealed what exactly is taken from a boy/man when he is circumcised. I understand that circumcision is a choice but this study made me understand why more and more parents are simply choosing to leave the choice to their son. One other thing that I found comforting during my quest for the whole story about circumcision . . . there are doctors who are opposed to it, as well as nurses and lawyers. These are all great places to begin your quest for knowledge.
There is so much more than this to know about circumcision. Trust me when I tell you that YOUR inner mama bear is definitely hungry for the whole story!
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Join other families this Monday, June 25 at 'The Circumcision Decision' seminar presented by Live With Awareness, located within Health & Healing Chiropractic, 226 Walnut Blvd, downtown Rochester. Receive fact based information to help you with this timely and important parenting decision. Click here to find a Calendar of Events with more info and how to register.
Some of what will be discussed:
-The Intact Penis - proper care
-History of Circumcision
-Medical Ethics and Informed Consent
-Circ methods, pain relief, risks, benefits
-Weighing out Pros and Cons
-Grieving and Loss
and MORE
.......An OPTIONAL video of a circumcision will be shown during class.
M. Fiore
1:06 pm on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Thank you for an awesome article !
Janice Rex-Weaver
3:54 pm on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Thanks Mellisse for your comment........please pass the word to anyone you know who may benefit from the seminar - it will be very informative and compassionate to help families decide what is best for them. www.birthcenter2012.com to see the full calendar. Have a great summer!
ann galen
5:59 pm on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
I have nothing against this barbaric custom of circumcision, but only if you have it done to yourself, as an adult.
However, surgically cutting off part of someone else's genitals, even your own family member, means you should be legally charged with criminal felonious assault and battery as well as a few other charges - esp if you do such a thing to a defenseless child.
Daffy Noodnicks
9:02 pm on Thursday, June 21, 2012
Ann Galen:
Thank you SO much for calling all of my ancestors going back to Abraham barbaric.
Your judgmentalism is horrible.
I do not have, and in every likelihood will not have, a son. I honestly do not know what decision we would make if we did, but I'm sure it would be complicated.
Sharon
10:24 pm on Thursday, June 21, 2012
As Bugs Bunny loved to say, :You are a mental case!"
Quinn
7:05 pm on Thursday, July 5, 2012
You are 100% correct Ann.
For you others imagine if someone strapped me (or you) down to a board and forcefully cut parts of your functioning body off without your consent because they thought you would be "better" that way.
Now ask yourself... How is that different than infant circumcision?
vanessa howell
8:21 am on Thursday, June 21, 2012
Coming from Great Britain where only Jewish people get it done to their boys, I was shocked that my son (and husband) is the odd one out over here for still being intact. The question never came up during my pregnancy, it's just not something that is done.
Janice Rex-Weaver
8:30 am on Thursday, June 21, 2012
Ann, it is great that you have formed your own opinion and decision about how you feel about circumcision. This seminar we are presenting will give facts to others so they can feel comfortable with what is right for their family too. Circumcision can be a deep and thoughtful decision that can bring up many emotions for families. There is religion and much history about this surgery wrapped up in the many years of this happening. All this and more will be discussed in this seminar in a compassionate way so families feel supported during this decision process. Your comment about being legally charged is your opinion and of course as you know not based in fact of the legal structure currently set up. Thank you for your voice, it lends the proof that this is a very hot topic and a great thing to do is get educated and start myth busting.
Janice Rex-Weaver
8:39 am on Thursday, June 21, 2012
Vanessa, the more and more I research about this as well, comparing it to how it is in the US, I was shocked in a different way........in the sense of how many other places in the world don't circumcise. I completely see that it is such a cultural decision, alot of times using a herd mentality, not thinking about what is right for your family, just going along because everyone else did it. Things are changing in this country, 68% of US parents are saying no to circ. And our friends to the north, 91% of Canadians say no. And with the fact that no medical organization in the world recommends circ, it seems that we are on a road of more education and therefore families making the right decision for them.
Joe Ferndale
7:10 pm on Thursday, June 21, 2012
I'm amazed at the all female response to this article. As someone very unhappy with being circumcised, I can't believe what lengths america will go to make a buck. Just seen on Facebook, the whole network, that infant foreskin is sold for $600 for research purposes & such. Please parents, ask yourself which part of your daughter would you like to cut off & attribute to possible future health care risks?? Seems more barbaric when you relate it to your daughter!! Unfortunately Americans see circ as the norm & find uncirc to be unsightly! Just don't understand why it is a point of research when it is all about the money! Look to the rest of the world & their extremely low circa rate!
ann galen
8:02 pm on Thursday, June 21, 2012
It always amazed me that one could permanently mutilate the genitals of a child and not go to prison. Great Scott!
Christopher
3:00 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012
How do you know that you wouldn't be unhappily uncircumcized? Maybe you're just an unhappy person?
Kimberley A. Solo
3:38 pm on Friday, June 22, 2012
I applaud you Janice. I too have a son (7 months now) and I DID NOT cut him. Where I delivered they were "the Circumcision cult" constantly saying I HAD TOO/NEED TOO to do it. I was VERY against it. No Doctor at the hospital could give me ONE valid reason why I needed to do that to my son. All they kept saying was "well its just not clean." I kept saying "So, a little more soap and water wont hurt right?!" As I rolled my eyes at them.. I got the dirty looks. But I didnt care. I'm gald you did whats BEST for your child. I know whats best for mine!!!! & the best part is when hubbys are behind you 100%! Mine was and still is!
ann galen
5:08 pm on Friday, June 22, 2012
Kimberley, when your son turns 21, and if he then wants it done, then let him go for it!! But it is his decision. No one should do this to any little girl or little boy.
Norm Cohen
11:00 pm on Friday, June 22, 2012
Both as a medical procedure and as a religious practice, circumcision is truly in a class all by itself. It is the only time surgery is performed on children without a diagnosis. It is the only time parents can insist that a doctor cut off normal, healthy tissue from their child, despite the obvious risk of complications. It is the only time that such cutting on children can be done for cosmetic reasons.
No other surgery is considered an alternative to proper hygiene. No other surgery that removes a normal part of an organ is claimed to result in no loss of function.
The majority of parents in Michigan simply want to make Junior’s penis look “nice” like Daddy’s and other boys’, but hide behind medical and religious arguments. They are simply disgusted by the sight of their son’s intact genitals. If their need for genital conformity could no longer masquerade as a medical procedure or as a harmless religious practice, circumcision would run the risk of being reclassified as child endangerment and criminal assault.
Norm Cohen
Director
NOCIRC of Michigan
Christopher
2:56 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012
While you were writting your comment 25 teenage girls got nose jobs.
Sarah K
11:20 pm on Monday, June 25, 2012
I can see both sides. I have one son who is circumcised and one who isn't (the younger one). They are only 17 months apart in age, but I did some more research in between them (had more time to prepare/research with #2 because we knew he was a boy ahead of time; #1 was a 'surprise'). My husband was fine either way. He didn't see any reason to do it (to my shame, even with my older son...I was behind that one, sadly). Sometimes I worry about what I'm going to tell my kids...but I really feel that this will help them be accepting of either way. I somewhat regret having my older son cut (they did leave a lot of the skin though) but I def. don't regret it with my older son (even though I was asked probably 3 or more times at the hospital if I wanted it done). It has taken our families a little time to get used to the idea, but they haven't said anything negative about it. There just are no good reasons to do it, and if I have any more boys, they will not be cut either.
kowdung
9:26 am on Saturday, June 30, 2012
I'm not sure where all of you read about it, but from what I read ... there are a lot of medical benefits to having it done. Also, there are religious aspects to the surgery, so I'm a bit confused why so many of you talking like ti's the worst thing in the world. Whether you believe in another's God or not, be respectful.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Circumcision
indebttoo
12:14 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012
Well said. I am surprised by all the vehement hostility & rancor expressed here. I also
feel by not acknowledging the validity of those who have religious reasons for choosing circumcision, the expressed prejudice against the procedure extends to a prejudice against a religion.
Poley de Prada
5:13 pm on Thursday, July 5, 2012
yeah, be respectful but to the person who gets this done out of anothers' own volitions with whatever excuses, but not Health Integrity and Respect.
Who told you is up to parents, or doctors without a problem in the area that indicates it, or to priests for a blood sacrifice of an innocent, to slice things from children, and one body part so suspectful of abuse as the genitals of a minor?
Tora Spigner
3:02 am on Friday, July 6, 2012
There are no medical benefits to removing a baby boy or girl's foreskin or clitoral hood. They are no more prone to infection or disease than any other body part. If you look at the fact that baby girls are protected from genital modification in the USA but not baby boys, you need to look at why that is? If you change the form of a body part and remove an organ (yes the foreskin is an organ), you change the function of the penis. A foreskin is necessary for normal and natural sexual lives, as is a clitoral hood and labia. People's religions stops at someone else's body so that needs to be considered when you take away the religious rights of an infant. It is a human rights issue and the only person who should decide if they want to be cut is the person being cut. His Body, His Choice.
ann galen
10:38 am on Saturday, June 30, 2012
Everyone has been quite respectful so far. In fact, nobody yet has criticized anyone for having this procedure done to themselves.
What is horrible, is when somebody hurts, painfully cuts, permanently mutilates another person's genitals other than themselves, against his will, and most especially when someone executes genital mutilation onto a defenseless girl or boy who is under the age of 21. Yikes!
Sharon
2:19 pm on Saturday, June 30, 2012
Yeah, and don't tell me I can't hae an abortion, either. It's my body, right Ann?
ann galen
2:40 pm on Saturday, June 30, 2012
Sharon,
Frankly, I dont care one bit what you do to your own body if you are an adult, you can pierce it, cut it, circumcise it, inject it, breath smoke into it, fatten it, tatoo it, whatever, Go get yourself circumcised right now if you haven't already!! . go for it!!!!!
.................just don't hurt, cut, mutilate, or kill, someone else.
Peter Griffin
5:14 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
ann, you don't have one, so you don't get a say...
Let's let the kid be the only one in gym class with the turtle neck pulled all the way over the head.
Christopher
3:02 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012
I enjoy the politics of language. Notice that they use words like "mutilate". Was I mutilated when they took my appendix out?
Cathy Fucinari
9:20 am on Sunday, July 1, 2012
Does that mean, Ann, that you are pro choice? I hope so, I don't think government belongs in my doctor's office making my choices for me or members of my family. How we make our decisions is OUR business. Not yours, not anyone else's. This article is about a seminar that enables you to make informed personal choices. Why should that get anyone's panties in a bunch?
Cathy Fucinari
9:21 am on Sunday, July 1, 2012
Ann, why are you continuing to peruse the Troy Patch? Don't you have any issues in Florida where you live? Read the paper there. Alot of issues to fix in Florida.
indebttoo
1:33 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012
LOL...Ann lives in Florida? I bet I know which " chads" she rooted for in 2000.
indebttoo
5:24 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012
I've known several adult men who chose to be circumcised later in life & said the pain was excruciating & lasted longer than expected. Conversely, I've seen many "freshly" circumcised babies who exhibited only the briefest amount of discomfort. Lastly, aside from performing circumcision for religious reasons, it's my understanding that an uncircumcised male may increase the risk of HPV & cervical cancer to his partner. Also, being circumcised makes hygiene much easier & less worrisome for both partners.
ann galen
6:07 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012
How many babies did you actually ask? What did they actually say? I worked OB/GYN and Maternity, and I can tell you for sure that it hurts, the babies all wail and cry and make ugly hurting faces (they cant talk!), and it looks horrible and disgusting!
The reason why some people want to do this to little girls and boys, is because they know it is very painful but the little girls and boys cant fight back. These people know very well that almost no adult men and women would ever voluntarily choose to have this done to themselves. Nobody would!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Last week, the court in Germany made it a criminal offense to mutilate someone else's genitals. "Banning circumcision is dangerous to your health
By Spengler:
On June 26, the District Court of the Federal State of Cologne ruled that circumcision of children for religious reasons at the instruction of parents constituted the infliction of bodily harm and therefore was a punishable offense. "
Jennifer
6:20 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012
The pain is just as excruciating for a child as it is for an adult, if not moreso. There have been studies on pain relief during circumcision which were halted due to the ethical problem of intentionally inflicting an excruciatingly painful procedure on a person. Those studies are why the AAP insist that anesthesia be used during circumcision. The healing process may be slightly faster due to a babies ability to regenerate tissue quicker than adults, but babies have no concept of time, no way to rationalize pain and thus suffer more profoundly than adults do. They are just not able to communicate the level of pain or the need for pain control and may not have the strength to do so. The absence of 'pain indicators' do not mean they are not suffering, as is noted in medical literature. This also points to babies who only exhibit 'the briefest amount of discomfort.' Babies in shock go to sleep. It is the only way to cope with the profound and intense trauma that they suffer from circumcision.
Circumcision eliminates a part of the body that needs as much attention as it takes to wash between toes or wash the butt crack. As a baby, the foreskin is not retractable and thus is not any more difficult to clean than wiping a finger. There is truly nothing to worry about. Taking away a body part as a prophylactic measure is solely the responsibility of the penis owner. It's a violation of multiple bioethical principles to circumcise a baby with no medical need.
B. Maurene White
1:14 am on Monday, July 16, 2012
Circumcision pain is multiplied in infants as their spinal pain blocking is not yet developed. The pseudo medical studies on prevention and cure of HIV, HPV, cervical cancer, UTI, Penile cancer and dozens of other ills have all been deconstructed and disproven. There are no medical or beneficial reasons for circumcising, it is not a medical procedure. The intact penis produces beneficial antibacterial secretions and is cleaner and more hygienic than the circumcised penis, and care is easier than dental care. The foreskin means perfect sexual pleasure for both male and female, a circumcised male causes pain, is less able to satisfy a woman and se becomes a worrisome issue for many people in 'circumcised' marriages.
Christopher
3:03 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012
I love that 3 women and convinced they know exactly how painful it is.
indebttoo
7:10 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012
To Ann G.....first of all, this discussion & my comments make NO REFERENCE to the circumcision of girls. Most people know that to be a barbaric act used to repress women in some 3rd world countries & it is not allowed in America. Secondly, babies "all wail and cry and make ugly hurting faces (they cant talk!), and it looks horrible and disgusting!". If you find it "horrible & disgusting" I think you were working in the wrong place. Lastly, to cite a court decision in Germany regarding inflicting "bodily harm" I find ironic, considering the number of bodies they "harmed" in 2 world wars! Circumcicision, especially in the hospital of a new born male baby is neither barbaric nor harmful. To insinuate that it is I find to be fear-mongering with no basis in fact. To all who are protesting it, I say let it remain the choice of the parents or of the adult male.
ann galen
8:42 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012
The permanent painful forceful mutilating of another person's genitals, doing it against his or her will, especially when done to a defenseless child, is very barbaric, no matter if it is done to a boy or a girl. The victim's sex is irrelevant.
Jennifer
9:36 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012
Circumcision of girls is a violation of their human rights, just as circumcision of boys is a violation of their human rights. Even a ritual nick of a girls clitoris was not permitted when the AAP suggested it a few years ago, based on the premise that any cut of any kind to her genitals is a violation of her body. Circumcision of boys as we know it in our country is much more severe than a ritual nick to a girl's clitoris. There are several forms of female circumcision that are less severe than what we do to our boys. The law protecting girls is sexist. It should protect boys, too.
Circumcision in the hospital is most certainly harmful. All parents who elect this for their babies have to sign a form stating that they understand there are risks and no guarantees as to outcome. The risks of circumcision are well documented in medical literature but are unfortunately downplayed. It is estimated that 117 baby boys die every year in the U.S. due to circumcision, although the number is likely to be much higher. This number of neonatal deaths is about equal to deaths from SIDS. The reason someone who works in a hospital might believe circumcision to be barbaric is because only about 4% of hospital circumcisions are performed with anesthesia leaving 96% percent of them suffering horrifying pain and some screaming so hard that they puke, some even rupturing internal organs because of it.
Bringing the past two world wars into this discussion is simply a red herring.
indebttoo
9:59 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012
By reading the choice of adjectives in your posts, Ann, I'm of the opinion that you are obviously not able to converse objectively. The discussion I was attempting to have is that if the choice by a PARENT for male circumcision of a new-born...whether for religious reasons or perceived health reasons...it should not be labeled a "mutilating, barbaric" act. If you don't want (or didn't want) to make that choice, that's fine. But to label those parents who DO choose circumcision for their male infant basically...and these are MY adjectives...child abusers is nothing more than rabid hysteria!
ann galen
11:03 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012
"But to label those parents who DO choose circumcision for their male infant basically...and these are MY adjectives...child abusers......................."
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"child abuser" is a weak understatement
indebttoo
11:20 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012
I don't know whether you're really a hater, ignorant or just want to be provocative ... you're displaying characteristics of all three. If you want the "final words" take them and .... darn, this is a nice public forum so I can't say what you should do with them!
ann galen
10:18 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012
If you really want some final words, then the final words are that, in this day and age, any person who intentionally needlessly painfully permanently irreversibly mutilates the genitals of an innocent defenseless little boy or little girl - is a child abuser of the worst kind. Turnabout of the offender would be too kind and no real consolation.
Jennifer
10:22 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012
I agree that calling people names is not helping the cause at all. It is actually shifting the focus away from educating those who are mostly uninformed as to the risks and consequences of circumcision and onto the poor debate skills. Nonetheless, there is clearly some lack of information among the general public about the function of the foreskin and the 'potential benefits' of circumcision. There are no proven benefits. Like I said before, it is a solution looking for a problem. Indebttoo, If you wanted a real objective conversation with someone about this topic, I imagine you would have taken the opportunity to discuss it with me instead of harping on Ann Galen.
ann galen
12:03 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012
Those who want these things done to little girls and boys, can not in any way justify this act. Therefore, they have continually tried to counter with personal attacks, and have been hijacking this topic and trying to change this topic to a topic about me or others who do not do this to children. Continued postings about me or other personal attacks, prove out that there is no justification, and no defense, and no reasonable explanations, for these mutilations. Please at least try to come up with something relevant to the subject matter. Any continued personal attacks on posters, will only serve to highlight that this barbaric ancient ritual is defenseless and has no merit nor any saving grace.
Xi Mills Ⓥ
4:16 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012
I am absolutely in the second camp. I do not care if you are offended by my telling you that there is absolutely no justification for cutting someone else's genitals without their consent!
Dennis
5:22 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012
Odd that a group of women comment, and like two guys, on a male issue. Joe, why are you unhappy?
Now... you want to talk about terrible things done to kids... let's talk about the hideous haircuts you give them/make them get. A circ, nobody knows about unless you tell them, but that whacked 'do is not hidden and the fodder of many schoolyard jokes and taunts, causing your kids 6-8 weeks of severe emotional anguish lasting a lifetime.
Joking aside, I can say mine has worked as it should for decades, and has never given nor received an infection. I am thankful that I have less chance of acquiring an STD or HIV, as well as UTIs, yeast infections and cancer.
What was the downside again?
Jennifer
11:46 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012
Dennis, circumcision affects men and women. Although obviously it affects men significantly more. Please see my comments about risks of circumcision for more info about how circumcision affects women sexually. Women are often blamed for vaginal dryness because they don't produce 'enough' lubrication to make intercourse comfortable. This diagnosis does not take into account the fact that she is likely having sex with a circumcised man who lacks the mucous membrane that offers complementary and sufficient (under normal circumstances) lubrication to achieve sexual satisfaction without pain or irritation.
Dennis
3:06 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Disagree.
indebttoo
5:42 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Dennis, been loving your replies. This discussion needed both facts & levity ... and also testosterone. You've provided all three. Thanks!
Dennis
7:41 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
"Vaginal dryness" is not a male problem, since we don't currently have vaginas.
"the FACT that she is LIKELY"... well, is it fact or a guess? Is this a documented medical diagnosis, or YOUR opinion?? And lol that a foreskin is supposed to squirt lube now.... from my experience, that is not where lube comes from. And how about that smegma... white, cheesy, urine-smelling gunk that's harbored in the folds of the foreskin. That HAS to be pleasant... and seems to be a rampant problem for those uncut... check it out here:
http://index.healthboards.com/menshealth/build-up-under-foreskin/1/
Mom C
6:03 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012
Asked my son. He has no memory of his bris. And if you are arguing that it causes extreme emotional damage that can impede a man's success in personal and business relationships later in life, let's look at a sample group, say, Jewish men, almost 100% of whom are circumcised eight days after birth. I'd say they'd be considered OVERachieving, not a blithering mass of traumatized, ineffectual adults. Check out the list of Nobel prize winners.
indebttoo
6:45 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012
Mom C, so right....er, CORRECT!
Jennifer
11:22 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012
Proven Complications and Risks of Circumcision: At least one out of every 500 circumcisions in the US results in a serious surgical accident. bleeding, infection, BXO, UTI's, meatal ulceration, meatal stenosis, Urethral Fistula, iatrogenic hypospadias and epispadias, lymphedema, complications from anesthesia, vomiting, apnea, rupture of internal organs, blood clots, heart damage, leg cyanosis, buried penis, adhesions, excessive skin loss/denudation of the penile shaft, chordee, cysts, skin tags and bridges, pitting of the glans, plastibell complications, excessive scarring and keloid formation, impotence, amputation of the glans, partial or total penile amputation, necrosis, necrotizing fascitis, death.
In addition, circumcision guarantees a loss of the natural benefits of the foreskin, which include: gliding motion that offers moving pressure versus friction to both the male and female during intercourse, additional moisture contributed by the mucous membrane beneath the foreskin on the glans, gliding action of the foreskin allows the moisture to remain in the vagina during intercourse versus drying up due to friction and air exposure from lack of foreskin, tens of thousands of erogenous nerve endings in 5 areas of the foreskin that are routinely amputated during circumcision. The frenulum is the most sensitive part of the circumcised penis which is less sensitive than all 5 of the areas removed by circumcision. A male also loses his right to self-determination
Dennis
3:08 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
I am SOOO glad I do not have 10,000 more nerve endings and 5 more sensitive areas. Can only imagine how painfully stimulating that must be... not to mention what a minute man that would make of one. Zero regrets here... THANK YOU Mom and Dad!!!
Jennifer
11:25 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012
Proven benefits of circumcision: none.
Dennis
3:11 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
- Decreased sensitivity = prolonged performance
- Easier cleanliness routine
- Far less chance of contracting HIV, STD, UTI and cancer.
- Less disgusting appearance (per women POV)
Jennifer
11:35 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012
Mom C. - perhaps overcompensating for lack of a prepuce i.e. reduced penis size. Did you know that circumcised men are 60% more likely to suffer from Alexitheymia? It is the inability to process emotions. Overachievers are notably troubled in the area of intimacy so no, it doesn't surprise me at all that so many Jewish men are so "successful".
indebttoo
1:42 am on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Jennifer, you asked why I didn't address my comments to you. OK, I now have something to say to you. Your above statement that ... "overachievers are notably troubled in the area of intimacy so no, it doesn't surprise me at all that so many Jewish men are so 'successful'."... shows what a sanctimonious bigot you are. Your statement shows you not only find it impossible to acknowledge that ideas other than your own may have validity, but it also reeks of stereotypical Anti-Semitism. Hubris, thy name is Jennifer!
Jennifer
11:41 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012
The amount of tissue removed from the penis of a baby ends up being about 15 square inches in an adult male. That's about the size of a 3x5 card - GONE from a man's penis. That's why you will often hear men and women who are educated on the topic circumcision refer to it as 'penis reduction surgery.'
Dennis
3:13 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
I call BS... there's NO WAY there is a 3x5 size patch of skin gone... maybe from a horse, but not a man. Medical fodder, IMO. LMAO at reduction.. foreskin does NOTHING for performance length or girth.
indebttoo
1:52 am on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Lady, you ARE nuts!! The equivalent of a "3x5 card ...GONE..."?! That's a whole lot extra to handle.
Jennifer
10:15 am on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Indebttoo, it's not extra skin. It's exactly the right amount that every man is born with. It serves a purpose and has a function. Foreskin is an organ called the prepuce. Circumcision takes away all of the following qualities: frenar band, gliding action, meissner's corpuscles, dartos fascia, immune function, lymphatic vessels, estrogen receptors, apocrine glands, sebaceous glands, langerhans cells, natural glans coloration and moisture retention (it's not supposed to be dry and rough, it's supposed to be soft and supple like the lining of the mouth), blood vessels, length and circumference, dorsal nerves.
See http://norm.org/lost.html for further explanation about what is lost to circumcision.
Jennifer
10:26 am on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Indebttoo, I have obviously struck a chord, as you now have revealed that it is not beneath you to be the name-caller. This subject isn't about me, it is about the human rights that are violated thousands of times every day because our culture accepts and promotes it. It's about children that don't have a voice, and men that never had a choice.
Jennifer
11:07 am on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Obviously, I very much resent being called an anti-semite and a sanctimonious bigot but I have to point out that Mom C. brought in her own 'research population' of Jewish men to the conversation as representative of a circumcised population. I was commenting on Jewish men as the circumcised population. I made no derogatory reference to the nationality or religion of the circumcised men. So, you are wrong. It was not an anti-antisemitic nor a bigoted statement.
indebttoo
11:50 am on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Jennifer, I call it as I see it. The definition of a BIGOT "IS THE STUBBORN & INCOMPLETE INTOLERANCE OF ANY CREED, BELIEF OR OPINION THAT DIFFERS FROM ONE'S OWN.". YOU are the one who made a barely disguised racial insult as to the character/physical attributes of Jewish men even if you didn't initiate directly referencing them. Worse, your insinuation that the millions of parents who choose male circumcision of their infants are essentially criminals by labeling them "human rights violaters" and "barbaric" BEGAN the so-called name-calling. Your total rejection of the legal choice of millions and your verbose pseudo-intellectual, pseudo-medical protestations demonstrates your bigotry.
Jennifer
11:18 am on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
There are lots of successful men who resent being circumcised.
http://www.circumstitions.com/Resent.html
indebttoo
12:06 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
You say "there are lots of successful men who resent being circumcised.". AND, in fact, there are lots of successful ( and not so successful ) men who very much appreciate it, as do their partners!
indebttoo
12:18 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Maybe if you can provide an unbiased scientific long term poll of a large, equally diverse population of both type of "heads" (double entendre intended) citing psychological & physical demographics including physical measurements, pain experience, pleasure experience, incidence of diseases, experiences & attitudes of their partners, religious affiliation if any...and maybe even political persuasion...it would be worthy of review.
Cathy Fucinari
12:08 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
You have all missed the entire point. This is about parents making the best decision for their children and their families. Just as with other personal decisions, everyone needs to BUTT OUT of other peoples medical offices and bedrooms. Jennifer and indebtoo are certainly entitled to their opinions, but they do not have the right to impose it on anyone else.
indebttoo
12:34 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Cathy, I totally agree with you. I'm sorry if you got the impression I want to impose MY beliefs on anyone else ... I don't. I completely agree that decisions like this should be a free, legal, private individual choice! It's the dogma of Jennifer, Ann & others that
so incensed me that I may have ended up sounding equally dogmatic. Today is the 4th of July & we should be celebrating our freedoms...including choice & privacy. Thank you for letting me know I may have sounded like I wanted to impose my beliefs on others. Again, I don't.
Jennifer
12:17 am on Saturday, July 7, 2012
But . . . it's okay for you to impose *your* sexual and religious preferences on your son and his future partner. Double standard.
klanghorn
2:14 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Indebttoo, I find it rather ironic that you're talking about independence day and not imposing your beliefs on anyone, yet you're for routine infant circumcision! RIC is a direct violation of the baby's individual rights. You talk about it being an individual's choice?! You're right, his body his choice!
Rina Joye Bly
2:48 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Give baby boys their freedom, say NO to circumcision!
klanghorn
4:00 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
If not wanting to strap my newborn son down into a position that is unnatural for him and amputating a useful, normal part of his body makes me a wackjob then I guess I'm a wackjob! Proud to be one!
Mark Itall
5:04 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
"Snip-a-Dee-Do-Dah! Snip-a-Dee-Ay!" "Clip clip here, clip clip there." Running modified, don't care either way, its personal business. It is nothing like, say, clitoral circumcision practiced in some quarters. That is truly mutilation of a child. Everyone move along please, nothing to see here.
indebttoo
5:33 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Mark, love your comment ... clever AND true! Wish I had said it so effectively.
Peter Griffin
6:30 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Ann/Jennifer... All I know is that I the doctor, or nurse, who did mine (when I was a infant) did an excellent job. Nice symmetry, nice even cut. It's pretty much a work of art!!
A guy with no circumcision is like a woman who doesn't shave their legs....kind of disgusting.
Ferndale Resident
9:34 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012
I find it amusing that it's the men commenting pro-circumcision on this article- y'know, the guys actually affected by it.
Jennifer said, " The frenulum is the most sensitive part of the circumcised penis which is less sensitive than all 5 of the areas removed by circumcision. A male also loses his right to self-determination". Funny, being circumcised didn't make me any less confident- in fact, it didn't affect my confidence at all.
I will admit that there are some benefits to not being cut, such as being able to feel more during intercourse. However, I'd say the benefits of being cut far outweigh the cons. I'd say a lower chance of infection/disease is a good tradeoff for a slight reduction in pleasure.
Jennifer
12:20 am on Saturday, July 7, 2012
You don't know what you don't know, Ferndale. You don't know what's missing because you never got to use it. I, on the other hand, got to keep all my parts and can't imagine being without them. So, maybe that's why there are so many females commenting. Not to mention, guys don't typically want to chat with other guys about penises, right?
Jennifer
12:07 am on Thursday, July 5, 2012
All circumcised men have a strong psychological incentive to believe that their circumcision was beneficial. Otherwise, they'd have to face the fact that their rights were violated. It still doesn't justify anyone choosing to cut up someone else's penis. Circumcised men still get HIV, they still get STD's, they still get UTI's . . . there is no proven benefit to circumcision. Only condoms are proven to prevent disease.
http://www.moralogous.com/2012/05/04/debate-motives-and-rationalization/
Dennis
1:37 pm on Thursday, July 5, 2012
Ahh, but Jen, once you use a condom, you reduce all those sensitivity issues you boast from the foreskin, as well as any lube and the gliding motion you fondly spoke of... so, once they're wrapped, those bennies are all gone. Stay safe.
Peter Griffin
12:37 am on Thursday, July 5, 2012
Jennifer...why do you care so much? You don't have one (at least I assume you don't). There is nothing wrong with parents circumsizing their boys at birth, so get off your soap box. Why don't you use your energies to do something useful. Quit disrespecting the cut crown! Maybe you should talk to the guys at "tuggers"....these men are having foreskin reattached to their unit. They are also weird.
Jennifer
2:03 am on Thursday, July 5, 2012
Actually, I do have a prepuce. It's called a clitoral hood on a female. I also have smegma. Something that intact men also have. I am doing something useful . . . generating awareness about the risks and complications of circumcision and educating people about human rights and the anatomy and physiology of the male prepuce organ. I am not disrespecting the cut crowd. You are in control of your own emotions so if you feel disrespected then only you can change that. I have talked to the guys at tuggers and they would have preferred to have been kept whole. They are not having foreskin reattached, they are tugging the remainder of the foreskin and shaft skin to force the skin to grow, but it does not bring back the nerve endings that are permanently removed with circumcision, in addition to multiple other parts of the prepuce organ.
Would you say a woman who wishes to have breast implants after a mastectomy is weird? Would you say someone who has lost all their hair and gets hair implants is weird? Would you say someone who has lost a limb and gets prosthetic limbs is weird?
Dennis
1:33 pm on Thursday, July 5, 2012
You're right Jen, and I have known that hood to cause the clitoris to be overly sensitive to the point of pain, not pleasure. That surely is no fun. Female circ could be equaled to removing part of this hood, to reduce sensitivity for her, making it more enjoyable, and less painful. Same for labiaplasty, a hugely popular procedure that also helps reduce uncleanliness, as well as unsightliness.
Poley de Prada
5:31 pm on Thursday, July 5, 2012
why to attack the messenger, just because she doesn't have what the men defending being cut have not either?
Ferndale Resident
1:02 am on Thursday, July 5, 2012
I assure you, I've read several articles throughout the years about it. I'm not ignorant to this debate at all, Jennifer. I've carefully weighed the pros and cons about circumcision throughout one's teenage and adult years, and I've come to the conclusion that it's towards one's benefit. This isn't psychological incentive, as you put it. These are hard facts and science.
I'm not saying getting cut fully prevents anything- and anyone with common sense would realize that isn't the case. I suppose the best comparison is exercise. It's advised to exercise because it can help cut your risk for certain diseases versus if you don't exercise. It's not guaranteed to prevent them, but it helps reduce the risk.
As for "rights being violated", I'd like to note that children's rights are limited until they're 18. Until that time, it's up to their parent or guardian to determine what is right for them. I'm not going to say parents should do X or Y- that's up to each individual parent and it's not my place to say there's a concrete answer, but to not have a child circumcised because you feel they have some right to that foreskin is questionable.
Now, I won't deny that there are people who regret having this done. There are more procedures now than ever to restore that foreskin, and they've been proven to work. I see it as safer to get a child cut to cut down the risk on disease, and if they regret it- after making that adult choice later in life- getting it undone.
Jennifer
2:23 am on Thursday, July 5, 2012
Ferndale Resident, please share links to your hard facts and science that prove benefits of circumcision. The American Academy of Pediatrics doesn't have them, The American Academy of Family Physicians doesn't have them, The World Health Organization doesn't have them, either. No national health organization in the world recommends infant circumcision. 85% of the world's males are intact. They have no more penile problems than circumcised males. Lifestyle is the largest risk factor in disease prevention.
You can't 'undo' a circumcision. It permanently removes the ridged band which contains the highest concentration of fine-touch (pleasure) nerve endings in the entire body, in addition to many other parts and functions. See the lost list http://norm.org/lost.html
Children's human rights are not limited until they are 18. Children are protected from being abused or put in danger. Girls, for example, are protected by law from being circumcised. All humans have the birthright to keep their whole body. Parents have the right to consent to surgery if the child faces a threat to life or health. The foreskin poses no such threat.
indebttoo
1:30 am on Thursday, July 5, 2012
Oh you guys...Ferndale Resident, 4x4 driver, Dennis, Mark...you've shared intelligent, clever, objective AND subjective replies that have been a pleasure to read today! Keep it up ;-)
Ferndale Resident
1:56 am on Thursday, July 5, 2012
I try my best! :)
Ferndale Resident
3:03 am on Thursday, July 5, 2012
Jennifer, please take a look at these articles:
http://www.who.int/hiv/mediacentre/news68/en/index.html
http://jid.oxfordjournals.org/content/204/9/1375
If those aren't enough for you:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2912604/?tool=pmcentrez
http://jama.jamanetwork.com/article.aspx?articleid=279008
As for your argument about losing pleasure, that's an acceptable loss for preventing the spread of disease. What good is a "whole" child if they're going to get a painful infection or disease? I can guarantee that those are just as bad- if not worse- than a surgery they won't even remember from their childhood.
Please, stop bringing up female circumcision. WHO defines female circumcision as "all procedures that involve partial or total removal of the external female genitalia, or other injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons." (Since you love sources, here's this one: http://www.who.int/mediacentre/factsheets/fs241/en/index.html)
The issue with your comparison to female circumcision is that male circumcision is done for a medical reason- to prevent infection and disease. Male circumcision is a far cry from female circumcision, so please do not use that as a comparison.
Further, to claim that circumcision is a form of abuse ("Children are protected from being abused or put in danger.") is offensive to parents who have thought out the pros and cons, and have ultimately chosen to circumcise.
Ferndale Resident
3:12 am on Thursday, July 5, 2012
Jennifer, I commend your willingness to debate what you feel is right. I won't argue that there are men of all sorts- those who have been circumcised but didn't want to be, men who weren't circumcised that want to be, etc. But I want you to take a look at this pro/con table I've made. Please feel free to add to it/review it as you will.
Pros for circumcision:
-Easier to keep cleaned.
-Reduced rate of infections/disease.
-Better look, in the eyes of many women.
-Less social stigma (not that I particularly think people should care about what their penises should look like, mind you)
Cons of circumcision:
-Slight loss in pleasure.
-A small loss of length/girth.
I took a look at your list, and many of the things listed are so minute that they can't really count at all.
You can argue that there's some psychological effect of circumcision, but I can tell you- as a man- who has many male friends- many of whom are doctors and therapists- that those effects are rare or caused by other factors than circumcision. I highly doubt anyone who was circumcised at birth even remembers it happening to them.
In conclusion Jennifer, I feel that it's important for you to at least admit that there are some important benefits to circumcision. I'm not asking you to change your mind, but there are valid medical reasons to circumcise.
Jennifer
2:58 pm on Thursday, July 5, 2012
Ferndale Resident,
The recommendations for circumcision to reduce risk are for adults, not children. Children do not have intercourse and are therefore not at risk of contracting a STD. The decision to use circumcision as a prophylactic measure can be left to a male when he reaches age of consent. By doing this, parents and doctors will be maintaining an ethical position with regard to autonomy, beneficence and maleficence. A fully informed man can decide for himself whether he is willing to sacrifice pleasure for the potential benefit of reduced disease risk. Additionally, the studies that purport these potential benefits are not used by medical experts to support routine infant circumcision. Finally, the studies you cite are all imperfect in many ways. The HIV studies are exceptionally flawed, as discussed in this paper.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22320006
Female circumcision is a perfectly acceptable topic to bring into this debate. This is why:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=98f3IavuEgQ
There are risks to circumcision. Putting a child at risk for an unnecessary surgery is putting them in danger. It is offensive to me that parents do not fully consider this fact when they 'choose' to have their sons genitals altered. But, I can handle it.
Krissylyn
2:31 pm on Thursday, July 5, 2012
It is also not routinely practiced in South Korea, where my sons, (whom I did not give birth to, but still instinctively protect them, regardless of your opinion that apparently you can only be protective of "little people you give birth to") were born.
Jennifer
2:39 pm on Thursday, July 5, 2012
I said that I resent being called and anti-semite. I don't hate anything. My comment about circumcised men having increased risk of a psychological disorder causing them to be devoid of emotion and relating it to similar attributes in over-achievers was in reference to the group put up by someone else as the study group. My only mistake was in referring to the group as Jewish. I am sorry if it offended you or anyone else, that certainly was not my intent.
In reference to other anti-circumcision activists . . . I do not have the same philosophy as the crowd who uses adversarial speech such as what you have seen here. It is counter-productive. However, I can't control what other people say. I did send a personal note to the person whose comments here were most offensive and asked her to change her focus, but just as I can't force people to stop circumcising their sons, I can't force other activists to stop expressing their outrage. This is a delicate issue for so many reasons and the majority of the activists with whom I do associate share with me the same advocacy philosophy. We aim to stop the cultural practice of circumcision in the U.S. by educating parents to make fully informed decisions. By nature of this, the rates will go down organically when parents fully understand what it is they are taking away from their sons . . . mainly, their freedom to choose what parts of their body they get to keep and to weigh the risks/benefits for themselves.
The Duke of Royal Oak
4:32 pm on Thursday, July 5, 2012
It is just a money maker for the doctors and hospitals. It is a sick practice. Stop it now!
Poley de Prada
5:46 pm on Thursday, July 5, 2012
And this convo shouldn't be about "I am offended" unless you were the child to be put on the slicing board... by OTHERS!
It's not a pissing match to see pro's and con's, wrong question to answer down, but rather,
WHY CUT what's healthy, and on someone else... who is a minor too?!!
And why adults "need" to make a decision on somebody else sex organ for a surgery that's NOT emergency of life and death but "elective", and which is risky and has potential serious side effects (included letal) and is not necessary for treatment when there is less invasive treatments for the "conditions told to prevent", AND while this individual person is a minor???
Dennis
7:42 pm on Thursday, July 5, 2012
What about pinning the ears on dobermans and boxers, or bobbing the tails on spaniels? How about hermaphrodites... would you all just raise an 'it' until 'it' was 18? And then there's tonsilectomies performed to prevent future tonsilitis. Did you have your children inoculated (vaccination) against diseases that don't really exist anymore (smallpox, polio), or against largely harmless ones (chickenpox). Even though there are many cases that go wrong - including autism and death - many parents think nothing of jamming a bunch of toxins/poisons/live diseases into their kids in the name of possible prevention. How is that any different?
Jennifer
12:24 am on Friday, July 6, 2012
circumcision is different because it is taking away immunological, sexual and self-protective function, as well as taking away a persons bodily autonomy with great risk and no proven benefit.
Tora Spigner
3:34 pm on Friday, July 6, 2012
I am glad when people leave their son's as nature made them, he will be able to have a normal and natural sex life. I know many parent's cut their sons because they thought they were doing the right thing for them and were misled by medical professionals and doctors. Remember people, doctors make $$$ by doing circumcisions and the majority of them are also cut so they don't know what the foreskin is and how important it is to men and women. In the 18 states where public medical insurance no longer covers circumcision (it is a cosmetic procedure), more and more boys are growing up intact. 85% of men in the world have foreskins and less than 1% choose to circumcise as adults for medical or personal reasons. That means 99% of men circumcised as children would have kept their natural bodies.
The Duke of Royal Oak
5:44 pm on Friday, July 6, 2012
It is a cash cow for doctors and hospitals. Stop it now!
Dennis
10:18 am on Saturday, July 7, 2012
OMG, you mean Im not having a normal and natural sex life?? =( dang. I would think 'men' choose not to due to costs (much higher and not covered) and recovery (much longer in adults).
Kimberley A. Solo
4:47 pm on Friday, July 6, 2012
The FACT is YOUR CHILD YOUR CHOICE!!! No matter what anyone or any article says, ALL IN ALL the best choice is made by the parents of the child! NO ONE HAS A RIGHT TO TELL YOU WHATS RIGHT OR WRONG DUE DO YOUR OPINIONS OR WHAT YOU "THINK" MAY BE RIGHT! This is America, THIS IS WHY WE LIVE HERE; FREEDOM TO DO! More of you need to put the energy into teaching your children respect TO others, put more effort into EDUCATION, and STOP with the she said he said Im right BS!
Jennifer
12:27 am on Saturday, July 7, 2012
YES! Like educating yourself about ethics and human rights and your kids how easy it is to keep a normal penis clean and how to use a condom.
Peter Griffin
6:24 pm on Friday, July 6, 2012
Kimberly....thanks for putting it in simple terms some othe these extremists can understand: MY CHILD, MY CHOICE. Jennifer and Ann need to mind their own business and, like you said, "stop with the he said she said BS".
Some (not ALL) of these women don't understand how a man's unit works. Mine has been "circ'ed" since birth and it works just fine. Neither my wife or I have any complaints. If I lost any girth from this, it's probably a good thing since that would really wreck her (same with length). We circ'ed both our boys because we felt it was the right thing to do. OUR KIDS, OUR DECISION. My wife backed me up on this, 100%.
Kimberly, thanks for adding logic to this discussion....it was desparetly needed.
Ferndale Resident
6:28 pm on Friday, July 6, 2012
Cannot agree more, 4x4.
As far as it being a "cash cow" goes, could the same not be said of vaccines, checkups, and every other medical service out there? You don't NEED vaccines, afterall. You don't NEED checkups, afterall. So why should we put our children through the unnecessary pain of getting them? </sarcasm>
indebttoo
7:21 pm on Friday, July 6, 2012
4x4 driver, you must have a happy wife in many ways :-)
indebttoo
7:04 pm on Friday, July 6, 2012
This has been a lengthy & often heated discussion. One personal result is that it allowed me to read many of the cited links; some I find to contain mainly objective analysis, while others appear to me to be more subjective in their conclusions. I did learn that, aside from Judaism, circumcision is most prevalent within the Muslin religion (the world's 2nd largest religion).
According to statistics, this is current make-up of global religion:
Christians 33.32% (of which Roman Catholics 16.99%, Protestants 5.78%,
Orthodox 3.53%, Anglicans 1.25%), Muslims 21.01%, Hindus 13.26%,
Buddhists 5.84%, Sikhs 0.35%, Jews 0.23%, Baha’is 0.12%, other religions 11.78%, non-religious 11.77%, atheists 2.32%
Continued below...
indebttoo
7:19 pm on Friday, July 6, 2012
...continued...
In my reading I found 2 particular sites that I found interesting:
The 1st site aims to provide a comprehensive reference library including papers on all aspects of circumcision. It is called CIRCS.org. (Circumcision Independent Reference and Commentary Service). Independent Reference and Commentary Service). It states that "The global prevalence of circumcision in all males is estimated using published data. It is estimated that of a total of 3492497084 males, 1306411547 are circumcised — a global circumcision rate of 37.4%."
It provides annotated data between 3/14/11 and 4/25/12:
http://www.circs.org/index.php/Reviews/Rates/Global (global rates)
http://www.circs.org/index.php/Reviews/Rates/USA (US rates)
http://www.circs.org/index.php/Reviews/Sex (sexual effects)
http://www.circs.org/index.php/Reviews/Body_image (body image)
http://www.circs.org/index.php/Reviews/FGC (female genital cutting)
http://www.circs.org/index.php/Library
The 2nd article is about female "circumcision" . I thought this document fascinating:
"FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION: an Islamic Perspective"
http://www.minaret.org/fgm-pamphlet.
Just wanted to share some more :-}
Janice Rex-Weaver
7:31 pm on Friday, July 6, 2012
Thank you so much everyone for your energy, input, passion and desire to educate others on your personal viewpoint. The back and forth discussions illustrate the exact reason The Circumcision Decision class was created.
What this blog post and this class has intended to be is to provide fact based information for families swimming in a sea of confusion and myths and opinions. The class is not intended to make any one choose to circ - or - not to circ. We support families to do extensive research about circumcision before making this very important decision.
The opportunity to watch a circ video in class is given so that families choosing this medical procedure understands what their child will experience. If we were all to come from a place of awareness and compassion, I suspect we could support each other tremendously during these important life decisions.
As I don't want to silence anyones speech, I also wonder if we have reached our limit on discussion - knowing that to 'agree to disagree' might be the outcome here. Aren't we all just trying to do the best we can for our families? If we can cut through the fear and judgement and get to facts and evidence based information - the outcome will probably be what we all want..............feeling confident and prepared to make the best circ decision for your family.
Jennifer
11:55 pm on Friday, July 6, 2012
Please do not use circs.org as a reference for circumcision information. It is run by Jake H. Waskett, a known circumfetishist. For those who don't know, he is associated with the Gilgal Society, a group of individuals who derive erotic pleasure from reading, watching and talking about circumcision.
http://circleaks.org/index.php?title=Jake_H._Waskett
Kimberley A. Solo
6:07 am on Saturday, July 7, 2012
Jennifer,
You SHOULDNT tell people what to do. What gives you any right in any matter to do so. And to tell me to educate myself about how to keep a "normal" penis clean?! Im not trying to be rude in any way, but really, it people choice on what web site, to go to. and to cut or not to cut.You have your opinions as well as others. And yeah as a P.A I have NO education in any matter how to keep a my sons uncut penis or any orifice clean (insert sarcasm here). Maybe you should go look up the word opinion, you can educate yourself there!
indebttoo
11:23 am on Saturday, July 7, 2012
Jennifer, I want to address your use of the word "circumfetishest". I've found in my dictionary searches that it does not exist. From Google searches, It appears to be a pejorative "word" coined by those against circumcision. So we know by the prefix " circum" you refer to circumcision . However, the word "fetishist" has several interesting definitions.
Yes it can be defined as stimulus in the course of attaining sexual stimulation (your accusations about circ.org). BUT it also is defined as devotion to object, idea, etc eliciting unquestioning reverence, respect or devotion.
The definitions continue to include "fixation, mania, obsession, preoccupation & prepossession" (by way of editorial comment, i find that all these adjectives seem applicable to your discussion).
You have referenced http://norm.org/lost.html as a standard supporting the cessation of circumcision. If I chose, I could say that their fixation is no more than an opposing sexual fetish, for those who gain pleasure with all that excess, lubricated skin sliding sensually back & forth.
No accusation here, just ruminating!
Dennis
11:58 am on Saturday, July 7, 2012
"...those who gain pleasure with all that excess, lubricated skin sliding sensually back & forth. " nicely put! Honestly, NOBODY knows the amount of 'supposed' pleasure lost, if any, since 1) everyone feels (sensory) differently, 2) anyone 'intact' doesn't know how it feels without, and 3) anyone circ'd doesn't know how it feels with. To make the claim of sufficient loss of pleasure is simply ludicrous IMO. MANY women complain men don't last long enough for them... must be all the intact guys with there 10,000+ extra nerves and 5 extra erroneous zones wrecking the Bell curve minutes. Oddly, it is almost ALL women on here fighting for intact, while almost ALL men saying otherwise. I'm close to calling penis envy on this whole discussion.
Jennifer
8:00 pm on Saturday, July 7, 2012
Apparently, the concept of human rights and bioethics is something that eludes the majority here. I will leave you all with some resources to better understand the concept of autonomy and self-determination as a birth right. This is a protection that is given to our daughters (only since 1997) but not to our sons.
http://arclaw.org/resources
indebttoo
9:17 pm on Saturday, July 7, 2012
I'm biting my tongue....
Kimberley A. Solo
9:51 pm on Saturday, July 7, 2012
indebtoo,
Its best too. Some people need the last word to feel like they "changed the world" in some matter. People need to let this TOPIC GO! Like I said before YOUR CHILD, YOUR CHOICE! No matter what article or book you post; its all a waste of some persons' time. Because parents minds have been made up and who "are you" to tell them they are right or wrong. It shouldnt matter.
Ferndale Resident
9:58 pm on Saturday, July 7, 2012
I wish I could "like" this post a thousand times over- or at least once.
B. Maurene White
12:53 am on Monday, July 16, 2012
As an RN with 50 yrs experience, publications, including a smartphone app i4SkinHealth, FarReach.org the host site, info@farreach.org for more info. I am a long time friend and admirer of Marilyn Milos - who states circumcision is a human rights issue. Having a child is not owning him. It is not owning his penis. Everything about his body is his, including the foreskin, his to keep forever unless someone poisons him against thinking he is perfect intact. There is no 'circumcision decision' to be made at birth, there is a 'protection obligation', of every single body part and everything to do with his health. The foreskin is healthy, circumcisions not healthy it is an injury and may cause long term health problems. There are no benefits to circumcision. Harming a child to look like a circumcised father keeps the father in denial and from learning how to restore is foreskin and achieving body completion. Circumcision causes post traumatic stress disorder including panic attacks in many infants, children and adults.
What people need to let go is circumcision. As a 6,000 year old Bronze Age sacrificial ritual and method of enslavement it should be history, not contemporary medical practice.
Any parent who is pro-circumcision has been severely manipulated, defrauded, and robbed. As it has no benefit circumcision is not a medical practice (Dr. James Snyder). The only valid 'circumcision decision' is that of 'uncircumcision' i.e. foreskin restoration.
B. Maurene White
1:00 am on Monday, July 16, 2012
Dennis, women who protect the penis are hardly envious! Most are glad they were born female on this continent and thus escaped being mutilated. Why would a man be against his foreskin? Because he doesn't have one and feels he has lost something. Maybe foreskin envy is the more appropriate problem! A radio host in England has several call in and talk sessions on this issue and found it was the case. Circumcised men are very envious that intact men have greater pleasure and are more successful sexually than they are.
Dennis
9:02 am on Monday, July 16, 2012
Hardly. Why would I want to look like my dog? No envy, no smegma, no bacterial issues here. I've never heard of anyone envious and your claims are subjective and without basis. I assure you that pleasure and success are not lost, and that cannot be a carte blanche statement IMO.
Peter Griffin
1:16 am on Monday, July 16, 2012
Hey, Betty White...no one is listening....all we here is, "blah, blah, blah". You aren't going to change the world.
Peter Griffin
1:21 am on Monday, July 16, 2012
More sexually successful with the turtle neck pulled up over the head? Really? Most women don't like that...they say it has no personality when the head is covered. How many licks does it take to get to the center of an uncirc'd tootsie pop...let's find out....ZERO! No woman is going near that one.
Poley de Prada
1:52 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012
4x4 drifter, Women in Europe, and Scandinavians and Geishas in Japan among them best, KNOW what and how to do better with the full sensitive equipment not the maimed/reduced bits. But this whole discussion is NOT about or against circumcised sex or people who wants to be so.... But against performing such on a minor. How hard is to get that? Even if it were a "healthy a sexual preference" to some, whether perverted socially enough for it or having no idea but following a herd in 50 shames of gray mediocrity, that belongs in the realm of mature consent.
Circumcision or tattoos or any other parental preference belongs in the realm of irrevocable and irreparable Child abuse!
Peter Griffin
2:10 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012
Ohhhhhhhh, how clever you are to try and botch my name.
And, I don't want some European, Scandinavian, Geisha girl -- I like normal corn fed mid western girls (to put it nicely). Most US women don't want to see the disaster of an uncirc'd unit.
BTW, you are wrong, circumcision is not child abuse. Child abuse is telling your son that you didn't circumcise him because you were trying to make a statement with him -- get over your holier than thou attitude.
Christopher
2:58 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012
The anti-circumcision crowd is the same group that thinks vaccines are linked to autism. They need a crusade in their life, they need to feel like they are 'saving the children'.
Busybodies.
Christopher
3:07 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012
To use a slight variation of what Representative Lisa Brown (D-West Bloomfield) said - I'm flattered that you're all so interested in my p%$#@, but no thank you!
*I wasn't sure if Patch would let that word go through.
Christopher
3:16 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012
Alright, one last post and then I gotta go. This is just too funny. So the author is the owner of an alternative birthing center who profits from every birth that doesn't happen in a hospital. One of the reasons you might want to have your baby in a hospital (there are about 1,000) is that if you want to have a circumcision performed it's smartest to have it done in a sterile environment by and experienced practitioner with the resources nearby in case of emergency...which she doesn't have.
Ergo, self-serving bunk delivered as news.
Peter Griffin
3:33 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012
Christopher - last post....best I have read yet. You are also right in how it's some women saying how much it hurts....that had me puzzled too. They must hate moms who get their baby girls' ears pierced.
Kristin Bull
3:43 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012
Thanks to all of you for this often-thoughtful, sometimes humorous discourse. Before the conversation gets even more off-topic, we're closing down the comments on this blog post. We appreciate your opinions.